Little Changes That Would Make Your Life Happy

Hello guys~

I’m here to tell you some advice I heard from somewhere (I forgot where) that made me think a lot and made changes to my life. I know it’s a bit long, but it will be worth it.

First of all, I’m going to talk about ‘hate.’ Everyone has someone who they don’t like or even hate; it’s just that they don’t want to admit it! Here is one advice: “Hating is like holding a hot stone. Drop it if you don’t want to hurt yourself.” This is really true. The only thing that happens if you hate someone is that your mind will be filled with negative thoughts. You’re only hurting yourself. Hating someone will just ruin everyday of your happy life. Yes, I know that it’s very hard, but if you throw away the hatred little by little, it will soon be gone. Don’t hurt yourself!

I bet you’re asking ‘What do I do after I throw away the hatred?(or not)’ Well, here is the next advice for you: “Life is too short to waste it on hating people. Surround yourself with people who make you happy.” If you have someone you hate, don’t waste your time planning plans to make them unhappy or something. Move your body and mind and spend your time with people you love. You’ll feel soooooo much better <3! I mean, if you had to choose between living your whole life hating someone vs loving someone, you’ll definitely choose the second door.

The last advice I’m going to tell you is not about hating someone, but it would definitely make your life super exciting. Here is the advice: “Your life gets happier the more you say ‘yes’ to things.” I had so many chances that I rejected which I’m regretting very much. For example, I had a chance to go out to eat dinner with my friends. In that moment, I was kind of lazy to move (I know that everyone has those moments! Stop snickering in front of your screens!!!) so I said ‘no’ to it. The next day, the only thing my friends talked about was the dinner! It seemed like they had so much fun playing games and such. I regretted so much for not going. After some time, I read this quote and tried applying it to my life. I think that was the best decision I’ve ever made. My once boring, nothing-to-do life became an exciting and happy life! The next thing I knew after I applied this to my life, I dived off a 10m cliff! I don’t think my old self would’ve even dared to do that. 😀 Start saying ‘yes’ to more things. I promise you; it will be fun 😉

If you want to live an exciting and meaningful life, apply these small things to your life. My thought is that you shouldn’t start with too big things because you’ll be too overwhelmed. Live a happy life for yourself. You’re worth more than living a boring life with the same cycle everyday. You deserve better 🙂

Thank you so much for reading such a long blog. I hope this made you think about living a happier life and byeeeee